The Cycle of Birth and Death
We as a souls took birth as human form to experience this life by two principles / Goals whatever you called.
- balancing the all pending karma from past life
- conscious selection of of doing good karma while experience this life through human form which aimed to balance pending karma of past life
here is what making us be in loop of birth and death cycles
Your soul has a purpose here to balance all karma to nullify – its a qualification to ascend to upper planes then unite in SUPREME but, this consciousness (mind) forget and doing bad karma with EGO & Being in Matrix with all scripted life routine, though our soul is warning us in-the form of intuition or gut feeling
this make many of us to LEAD LIFE which is actually aimed for LIVING & here is the difference
LEADING LIFE
GOAL – Leading life with EGO & projecting it as great life by achieving scripted life goals.
EGO means not only arrogance, deep desire, greed, obsession about money, social status, fame, trying to fit in “Ramudu Manchi Baludu” “Peddamanishi” roles & etc…
Life with EGO = LEADING LIFE here is how it scripted from generations..
- taking birth as child
- pampered by granny
- joined school by age 5
- listen to mom & dad and follow their childhood passion or goal which they failed to achieve
- get good marks and complete graduation with all gifts, surprises for events like birthday, graduation day etc..
- fall in love and imagine life with her/him and build air castles
- breakup and goto depression by blaming they cheat you
- be with friends get addict to drink and smoke during that phase
- join gym & build muscles – here its EGO but people butter it as self love
- get a job or start a business
- make money – because it rules & you chase it with greed
- get marry and have kids
- grow them and teach life with your experiences
- buy home and apple family on EMI for social status
- post pictures and show how happy you are on social media – to make your ex feel jealous and sad for missing you
- use credit cards for trips and take personal loans for clearing those
- run on wealth deficit with kids school fees, & life style maintenance
- do job for balancing the EMIs, filling credit cards & paying home & apple family loans
- get stress side effects like pre-diabetic, bp, insomnia – be optimistic & say its common in this generation
- being in this loop till you clear home loan by 50yrs age
- retire with home in hand kids in abroad with education loans you expect them to paid and finally its on your head
- they didn’t marry willing to do live-in with one Afghanistani partner
- you expect them to get marry to make you grandpa/granny – they don’t marry
- you die one day they do come if flight rates are cheaper its optional
what you achieved in this life, you just followed scripted version of a group of love failures who made money and walked on retirement path with 2Crores home with 3.5 crores interested paid in 20 years & kids in abroad who absent for your funeral
where you started why you started where is your soul purpose you completely forgotten with EGO & scripted life, on the death bed last 40 seconds before soul leaves the body it plays everything and feel regret for not clearing pending karma and loaded with additional bad karma with greed of money & status.
this is what happening with many they lead life controlled by parents at childhood, wife/husband after marriage, brands/businesses with your emotions and kids with relations at old age for property & pension.
RockBottom
at one stage in life you hit rock bottom with EGO based living side effects like
- broken relationship
- losing money by cheated
- losing organs in accident or chronic diseases
then you have got a wild-card entry to LIVING LIFE this time you can write you own terms of living rather than following “Leading Life Script mentioned above”
Living LIFE
GOAL – Living life as it is without attaching to societal scripted lifestyle with EGO by having a complete awareness of your intuition/gut feeling & opting it over any proven system of leading 3D life formula.
- Life with Wisdom = LIVING LIFE
- Life with Detached Attachment = LIVING LIFE
it’s really challenging to define what exactly “Living Life” in a sentence like “Leading life”, because it’s a canvas even if you paint it or leave it blank still it’s not attached to your EGO..
- people who started living life welcomes whatever life throws at them with detached attachment
- there is no obsession to goal over goal, milestone over milestone like leading life with continues chase.
We are Here to Live Life
Beauty is you can define it in your own way like 3 years kid painting canvas with hands.
If you understand you are not this body not this mind it’s your soul having a human form with mind & body then it becomes easier to living life the way it unfolds.
if you nurture your body, mind & soul with detached attachment routine you will fly like butterfly in any situation without attaching to result or situation.
BODY:
- body needs rest & grooming
- Alchaline rich Food, Exercise & Sleep will help
- Fancy diet, taking supplements to build body is again attachment to body with EGO feeling you are “YOUR BODY”
MIND:
- mind needs rest & expansion
- Questioning, meditation & sleep will help
- Use your intelligence to do right things at right time for everyone wellbeing so that it won’t create attachment to your MIND power which make you feel you are “YOUR MIND”
SOUL:
- it has bunch of innate strength memories from many past lives.
- it excites for energy which aligned to you
- find it with people & places which uplift you
- Pro Tip : Be with people where your energy uplifted with good vibes
- Who autocomplete your sentense by aligning your thoughts in other words where your communication is effortless
- Catch Goosebumps & identify in which activity is getting those on your hands, cheeks while you are doing – it’s your innate strength your soul is resonated with that.
Living Life – Example
- As I said above there is no particular defined version for “LIVING LIFE” – its your own canvas how can you draw
One of my friend Gautam – Unlearned Life and Started Living from Heart to fullest here Is his plan & how he executed.
- He Created a list of expenditure for basic living for 12 months & he had a backup by selling un-necessary things which he bought by social media influence
- Quit his rat race 9-5 job which is making him to live from pay check to pay check
- He Uninstalled Instagram completely after realising it’s fake life & instant dope shot with reels. – his screen time reduced to 65%
- He Wakeup whenever he feel like no alarm no snoozing like before
- He will do morning rituals & connecting to his soul with grounding techniques like surya namaskar, breathing exercises – initially he put effort after 66days consistency he made it effortless
- He will enjoy morning addiction like coffee/tea because its effortless since his childhood switching black tea is more complex and it’s against his inner feeling of having.
- He will eat 50% South Indian breakfast by adding raw veggies, because it’s hard to switch to millet after 30 years of Idly Sambar breakfast
- He found his goosebump activity as Archery, Dance, Singing and allocated 1 hour for each in a day
- He record his progress and post it everyday in YouTube keeping title as – Unlearning Life to Live Fullest
- He started a new income source by learning freelancing so that he can able to work from anytime anywhere
- He had a quality time by spending kids, pets near to his home
- He had a nice lunch with balanced carbs, protein with dal+rice+paneer+ buttermilk
- Had a sound sleep after lunch
- He learned a new income skill with which he can offer freelancer services.
- He hit the Gym to burn some calories and sweating – no GOAL of 6 packs which again make him to feel I AM THE BODY with attachment.
- He Enjoy sunset everyday by having cup of coffee
- He did deep meditation after evening bath and connect to his higher self
- He will have a high protein early dinner by 7pm with rotis, paneer or veg curry
- He read a book which he feel like otherwise simply hit the bed by 11pm
Addition to This
- He shop for festivals
- He eat sweets for festivals
- He serve food in temples
- He groom pets which comes to him – without adopting
- He speak less listen more
- He became observer to people, places rather than obsessed which leads him attachement
- He go to his ancestor fields and spend time by showing gratitude for their hard work
- He never go to temples on busy days he believe god inside everyone
- He donate food to poor
- He donate books to orphan kids
- Whatever he do he will do it from heart
- Whoever comes to him with love he welcome with love but, never attached
What Gautam don’t feel from heart he don’t do no matter at any cost.
- Everything which never make him feel like doing, for example: adventure trip, birthday party, bali trip, Leh ladakh bike trip which everyone is obsessed to find happiness in those
- He believe happiness is decision its inside & it never be attached to people or places
It’s simple lifestyle with detached attachment of welcoming life the way it unfolds to him.
One day he might be dead without big villa, bank balance or any investments in stocks, EPFs, Mutual funds but, how many days he live he live from heart and exit this body With full satisfaction of detached attachment of MIND & BODY. I call Gautam is in heaven with full Freedom.
Now you figure out a your way how you can unlearn leading life to welcome Living life fullest. I am curious to read your story in comments.